Billy's Story
Thankfully, I have a very understanding wife. It was just a case of learning other ways to connect intimately and being open and honest with each other
I know some can get really down due to the Penis shrinkage and impotence. It doesn't make you any less of a man it's just a new chapter in your life and a chance to learn more about your partner.
Being left incontinent and impotent at 44 took a bit of getting used to. It took being totally honest about my fears and feelings to get through it.
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It was hoped the cancer was contained in the prostate, but once they started the operation, they realised it had spread into the surrounding area. This meant the removal of more than the prostate, which led to the added side effects. Having it removed has probably prolonged my life but with with the side effects.
I found that having radiotherapy gave me purpose each day. It was when it finished I struggled mentally and spiralled into depression. Get a good support network around you not only during but also after radiotherapy.
The routine of going everyday was a positive for me. The staff were so friendly and supportive. It was great to have a reason to get up and go out each day. Ringing the bell at after your last treatment is an amazing feeling.
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