Mike's Story

Ethnicity
White British
Age
70-79
Work
Retired
Sexual Orientation
Straight
Geography
East Anglia
Relationship status
Married/In a Civil Partnership

Tips and advice for any sexual side effects of treatment

I lost interest in sex ever since starting to take tamsulosin in 2022 (inc. reading about the side effects) and starting hormone therapy.

Tips and advice for any physical side effects of treatment

I have regular hot flushes, fatigue and have gained approximately a stone in weight so far, probably due to hormone therapy. Also some itchiness - usually back, stomach and legs. But I am still able to play tennis although I feel tired afterwards so I would suggest keeping up with a sport. I wake up to pee 2-3 times a night and wake up around 5:30 each day so go to bed by 10pm and try to turn out the light by 10:30. Worth mentioning that I had a rectal barrier insertion operation privately. But I did not have any rectal problems following radiotherapy so I think it was worth it although very uncomfortable - like a prostate biopsy under local anaesthetic. Also did prehabilitation classes which prepared me for my radiotherapy physically ( I also continued regular tennis) and a HOPE course which gave me a good social group of other cancer patients, some of whom were very supportive.

How this treatment impacted my life the most

Daily trip to the hospital for 20 days.

If I had to do it all over again, would I choose the same treatment?

Yes

Why did I give this answer?

My PSA has reduced from 9.4 to 0.03 and I live a reasonably normal life.

Tips and advice for any sexual side effects of treatment

I completely lost interest in sex including masturbation when I started hormone therapy,

Tips and advice for any physical side effects of treatment

Wear loose clothing so you can shed a layer during hot flushes. Perhaps try mindfulness techniques as hot flushes are sometimes associated with stress.

How this treatment impacted my life the most

The fatigue makes me often fall asleep when working on the computer or watching TV, reducing my productivity..

If I had to do it all over again, would I choose the same treatment?

Yes

Why did I give this answer?

PSA has reduced from 9.4 to 0.03 and I live a relatively normal life.

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