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Alan's Story

Learn about Alan’s experience of treatment, how he managed any side effects and the impact it had on his life.

Ethnicity
White British
Work
Retired
Sexual Orientation
Straight
Geography
South West
Relationship status
Married/In a Civil Partnership
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Focal Therapy

Tips and advice for any sexual side effects of treatment

I have had two rounds of IRE - I was still able to ejaculate after the first round (though with much reduced volume) but because the second round treated a larger area I found that I was no longer able to ejaculate. My orgasms are completely dry, which takes a week or two to get used to, but, once you do, they are still very pleasurable.

How this treatment impacted my life the most

I was diagnosed at age 54, I was about to retire, and I had a number of plans to go travelling and long distance trail walking. My biggest concern when I was offered surgery or radiotherapy was that I would be left with some form of incontinence or impotence (a not uncommon occurrence). That possibility did not sit well with my retirement plans, especially as I am still in a loving and active sexual relationship. When we found the IRE treatment (which I had to take via a private clinic in Germany) it promised no life changing side effects and I have found that to be true (apart from learning to enjoy dry orgasms). I am fully continent and still enjoy a healthy sex life. That was really important to me.

If I had to do it all over again, would I choose the same treatment?

Yes

Why did I give this answer?

Because I did have to do it again. IRE is repeatable if needed (because it treats the cancer NOT the whole prostate) and I had a localised reoccurrence in 2022 which was caught very early in a follow-up MRI scan and successfully treated with a second round of IRE.

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