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Jon's Story

Ethnicity
White British
Age
60-69
Work
Retired
Sexual Orientation
Straight
Geography
North West
Relationship status
Married/In a Civil Partnership
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Radical Prostatectomy (Surgery)

Tips and advice for any bladder or bowel side effects of treatment

I was told by the surgeon to do pelvic floor exercises prior to treatment which I didn't do. They might of helped but it took me three months to regain control of my bladder. In my case I gradually regained control so in my case I stayed positive and control gradually returned.

Tips and advice for any sexual side effects of treatment

I have no advice I could give as I have had no sex life since.

Tips and advice for any mental and emotional side effects of treatment

All I can suggest is try to stay positive.

How this treatment impacted my life the most

My sexual relationship with my wife has never returned. My PSA started to rise a year after my prostectomy so I had radiotherapy (32 sessions) and hormone treatment for three years. I have recently developed lymphoma which could, according to MacMillan literature, be as a result of radiotherapy.

If I had to do it all over again, would I choose the same treatment?

Not sure

Why did I give this answer?

Hindsight is self destructive. I did what I felt was the right decision at the time and also it was eventually the only option.

Radiotherapy

Tips and advice for any sexual side effects of treatment

The problems I encountered were as a result of my prostectomy not radiotherapy. I had no side effects from the radiotherapy but I followed the radiographers instructions to the letter.

How this treatment impacted my life the most

The treatment was very straight forward and the only significant side effect was I was tired.

If I had to do it all over again, would I choose the same treatment?

Yes

Why did I give this answer?

It was the solution to my rising PSA level.

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